Kiss Your Baby, Go to Jail

I can’t help but to think Americans seriously need to use their resources on more important things after reading this article.

Excerpt:

The father and his wife, Teresa, dropped off some photos for processing at a local Eckerd. The role included a shot of Charbel kissing his baby on the tummy. Next thing the parents know, they’re being charged for sexual assault, and their children are wards of the state. It took six months for an investigation to conclude that there was zero abuse in the household, and for custody of their two kids to be restored.

Relax, America…

And to add to this, I’d like to say that corporal punishment shouldn’t be a crime. It has its place in families, especially that of Asian origin. It’s silly to argue that kids who were punished with some spanking will grow up to be abusive and a burden to the society… I mean, crime rate in the United States is among the highest in all of developed countries, isn’t it? Taiwan, Japan and Korea, where corporal punishment has been consistently used as a discipline method, are incredibly safe countries. No “Columbine” there! Maybe gun control (or lack there of) is the problem?

via [BloggingBaby]

Fever

A 103-degree fever brought Grace to the E.R. last night at 6PM. She was admitted almost immediately. That was pretty fast (I will explain why later). But the actual care, meaning, having someone to look at what may have caused the fever, took another four hours. And then it took another two hours after that to decide if she had to stay the night for additional observation.

An ultrasound showed that Grace had some clogs of blood in her uterus from giving birth, which may have been what caused the fever. Though the E.R. staff were helpful and friendly, the time we spent waiting was excruciatingly long.

So this brought me to talk about the American Emergency Room system. While sitting in the waiting room until Grace was cleared to see visitors, I overheard some people complaining their wait time of 8+ hours. To add to that, when I left the hospital at the end of the visitation hours (around 1AM), I saw a young couple who were there long before we got there, but were still waiting to be admitted.

Bear in mind, to the American medical system, emergency doesn’t really mean EMERGENCY. What they really mean is usually one of the three things:
1. Your doctor’s not available to see you because he’s booked for the next three months. In the meantime, any medical problems you have, you are f*cked.
2. It’s the weekend/holiday, and your doctor does not see patients because he needs time off too. So you are f*cked.
3. You don’t have insurance, or that your insurance is so limited that it doesn’t cover whatever you are having problems with. So you are f*cked.

Then what does emergency really mean in America? It means, you are having certain medical issues and your primary doctor is not available to see you. So what do you do? You go to E.R. to get “immediate” treatment. Now, even the word immediate is a relative term in America. It’s all mathematics; everyone can agree that waiting for 12 hours to be admitted into E.R. is much more immediate than having to wait for three months to see a doctor. Yes?

In order to be admitted truly immediately into E.R. in the U.S., you must have a life-threatening condition or wound, merely having a terrible pain or maybe a broken thumb are not nearly enough. In our case, Grace has had high fever for more than a couple of hours, she had to be admitted and treated right away.

The ironic thing was, when I was with Grace inside E.R., there was a bum who was so drunk that he passed out on the street and got admitted into E.R.. And the staff said that was his third time THAT DAY in the E.R. and that he’s been a frequent in that particular hospital. So this begs the question, how come tax- and bill-paying customers are waiting for 10+ hours just to be diagnosed for their problems, street bums and crack heads who pass out from their drug of choice, and most likely will not pay the hospital bills, get to be cared for long before the others? It’s not to suggest that just because they choose to abuse their body and put their lives in danger that they shouldn’t be treated equally in the eyes of medicine. But it does open up a debate on just how the American society is going to approach this kind of abuse of its medical systems.

Americans used to blame illegal immigrants and foreigners for their high health insurance bills and expensive medical systems in general. It’s long been thought that the system has been abused by those immigrants so that Americans end up with the tab. But a recent study showed that just the opposite is true. It’s been the American-born citizens who are abusing their own medical systems (i.e. drug heads, suicide attempts that were designed to be rescued… which was the case of a woman next to Grace’s gurney). Immigrants, illegal or not, have not been using medical services all that frequently, even those who have health insurance.

A typical E.R. visit can cost anywhere from $1,000 to $15,000 USD depending on the procedures required to treat the patient. But in my experience (unfortunately, from stories of people around me), the average has been around $3,000 to $5,000. The cost usually includes seeing a nurse, have temperature and blood pressure and other vitals taken, minor treatments by a doctor, maybe they’ll even let you stay there for the night. For example, my brother had to go to E.R. for allergic reactions to aspirin (long story) a couple of years ago. That trip itself was $3,000 — the cost included a shot, one night stay at the hospital (sorry, no private rooms), and let’s not forget the ride in the emergency vehicle (that’s all to yourself; no need to pick up other people along the way).

Getting back to Grace, she’s feeling much better now. Her fever’s dropped back to normal (but still on the high side). Hopefully she’ll be home today. Thank god my mom’s here to help out. I can’t imagine taking care of Bryan all by myself with almost zero sleep.

Supersize Yer Mama

As we were getting ready to check Grace and the baby out of the hospital, a new mother checked in next to Grace’s bed (there are two beds in one recovery and nursery unit). The nurse was explaining the importance of breast feeding when the father walked in with two big bags of McDonald’s lunch bags.

The nurse looked at the bags and asked the mother, “Have you seen ‘Supersize Me‘?”

Reply: “Yeah, I guess. I have heard of it.” Started eating. I wonder if this has to do with the fact that she’s on the really heavy side of the weight spectrum.

Finally, the mother grew tired of the breast feeding pep-talk and rejected the idea all together. She claims that both of her previous children were not breast fed, so why should this one be any different!

God damn it, I can’t stand ignorant people who think they know all the answers.

Our philosophy is, when you become a parent, you think and do what’s the best for the baby (whenever possible), not what’s convenient for you. Why can’t people get that inside their tiny little grey matters? Are they even using the 10% some scientists think we only utilize?

Medical Researches

I guess third degree laceration is not a common thing. Those lacerations are pretty serious deep cuts. But Grace has been doing incredibly well. I haven’t heard any complaints about pain yet.

Right after Bryan’s birth, the hospital approached her with a form asking her to participate in a clinical study, sponsored by Stanford’s medical research arm, to see if treating third degree lacerations with antibiotics will help the wound heal faster. Grace won’t know if she’s receiving the antibiotics for the sake of keeping the research subjective.

Our answer? Whatever it takes to advance the science and medical research, man.

But the story doesn’t end here…

Two days later, a pediatrician showed up at Grace’s nursery and recovery room asking if we’d like to have Bryan participate in another research to see if a certain virus is present in babies (forget the name). This virus can be present with adults and does not do anything. But in infants, it could cause serious damages. Since all she needed was a swab of Bryan’s saliva and nothing else, we agreed. Whatever it takes to advance the science and medical research…. I hope they are not secretly making baby clones out in the labs somewhere… It also made me feel like those doctors are like those bad house-to-house sales people who’d knock on your door to try to get you to buy their latest amazing goods.

Interestingly, this study on the virus was also sponsored by Stanford.

Tiger Rendering Issues

I guess there’s still some work to be done with Tiger… Or maybe my hardware is getting old and unresponsive? Either way… this is messed up… Menu littered with two layers of text from two different apps…. I have only seen it a couple of times though… But that a couple of times too many. But I’ll take this over virus-ridden Windows any day!

Tiger menu

Crappy Electronic Toys

Thanks to our baby registry, we’ve been getting a lot of stuff from friends and family. The one thing that I noticed about infants and toddlers related electronic products is this — they are all pieces of crap with huge battery consumption requirements.

Sure, I can understand why most of them require multiple huge size “D” batteries, but why do manufactures have to make them with such low quality and poor craftsmanship? Does being made in China has anything to do with it? Why is it that low quality products are almost always associated with the notion of “Made in China”? And truly, I have not used anything decent coming out of China as of late.

Speaking of batteries, they are so darn expensive in the U.S.! What’s the deal with that? It’s not like Americans do any better job recycling the batteries. Is it because the manufacturers can charge any amount and get away with it? Or does it cost more to make them FOR the United States market while exact the same batteries are way cheaper elsewhere because they are made locally? I’d love to find some answers on the myth of high battery costs in the U.S.

Blog Whore

God damn it. I am such a blog whore. I still have about two dozen+ ideas I have saved up in my “to-blog” folder on the desktop that I want to sit down and write about. But I just keep getting distracted with all the interesting tech crap I have been blogging about. I wish I can get paid to blog about all the nonsense that’s in my head full time. That’d be the day.

Note to self: Blog about the following….
– Eileen Fisher
– Meme
– Moral politics (a little help here, Brian?)
– “Harry Potter” books and young readership
Self-storage America
– Aristotle & dreams
– Human brain
– The Graphing Calculator Story
– Republicans’ Plan to Incorporate Church into State (Evangelical America)
– CNN USA v.s. CNN Elsewhere in the World
– Illusion of Freedom v.s. Lack of Freedom
Various NPR episodes

But I am extremely happy that I’ve been able to get some stuff out of my head (like that Bob Lazar guy) which I’ve always wanted to document somewhere.

Umbilical Cord Blood and Health

Michael told me he’d saved his baby boy’s umbilical cord blood with a company his doctor recommended. It’s insurance for the health of the baby in the future in case his own stem cell is needed, he explained. “Cord blood banking” is still an experimental science that harvests the stem cells from the umbilical cord blood from the mother’s placenta immediately after she gives birth. The stem cells are then stored for future use against stem-cell-treatable diseases (or god knows what’s possible in the future). Though some of those diseases can be treated with adult bone marrow transplants, the statistics of matching someone with the right bone marrow tissues are much less than matching stem cells harvested from umbilical cord blood since stem cells are capable of developing into almost any type of cells or tissues.
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At $1,500 a pop to get an account open, and an additional $100 a year to keep the account open, it’s a pretty hard pill to swallow. Some people argue that the potential of a disease is much greater than the cost of maintaining the umbilical cord stem cells in a bank. Well, true. But for a young family trying to scrape enough food to keep things going, it’s a big investment, especially payments are made indefinitely to keep the stem cells available.

Now that’s some business plan. Take a cutting edge science that may or may not work in the future; start marketing effectively on its “potential” benefits to your baby. And convince the parents it’s worth the investment throughout the lifetime of the baby. And receive payments forever.

I am not disputing the umbilical cord blood’s potential uses. In fact, researches have already shown its effective uses. I guess this is something we’ll have to discuss with our doctors. I suppose this is most useful for families that have a history of diseases passed down for generations.

More information can be found here.

Russian Spammer Murdered

A report from Russia confirms the killing of Russia’s biggest spammer.

Vardan Kushnir, notorious for sending spam to each and every citizen of Russia who appeared to have an e-mail, was found dead in his Moscow apartment on Sunday, Interfax reported Monday. He died after suffering repeated blows to the head.

Yeah, that’s what should be done to spammers who are caught doing the deed. The public should be able to stone them to death or inject acid into an open hole in their skulls. Oh wait, according to an episode of Law & Order, that may kill them too fast… Brutally beaten to death is good then.

A Mild Case of Repetitive Strain Injuries

If anyone ever wondered if sitting in front of a computer can cause a repetitive strain injury, wonder no more. It got me.

Just out of the blue one day when I was typing, my pinkie suddenly stopped working. It felt as if the damn finger didn’t exist. Freaking stupid pinkie.

I ended up using the index finger to reach the pinkie keys —

1
delete

,

1
return

,

1
shift

… etc. You don’t really appreciate the pinkie until you’ve lost the use of it.

But not to worry. The finger came back a couple of days later.

Bill Clinton and His World View

Bill Clinton image A couple of years ago, former U.S. president Bill Clinton delivered an excellent speech at The University of Texas at Austin.

The elegance and sophistication of his speech makes him by far the best public speaker I have seen. Steve Jobs does give great presentations from time to him. But he’s a salesman and that’s what he does best. However, people who attend his presentations usually walk away with reality distortion field affect. Bill Clinton, on the other hand, nails his points with impeccable logics and concisely worded reasons. I can’t see how anybody can debate with him and win.

I tried recording the live streaming of the speech but failed. I am so worried that someday it may not be accessible anymore. But in the meantime, his speech can be accessed from Apple’s site here.

I’d also visit the William J. Clinton Foundation website for transcripts and videos from his other speeches. Very inspirational.