Photo Updates Soon

Not that everyone’s clicking on our photo albums everyday… But Grace’s been complaining that I haven’t updated the Quicktime movies or photo library for quite sometime now. I am evaluating on various options by using one of those publicly free services so that Grace will be able to update them herself….

Some candidates are:
Flickr
Picasa
Sony ImageStation
(and printers that also offer hosting like SnapFish, Ofoto… etc.)

For videos, obviously YouTube is THE choice. I am researching to see if there’s a plugin for iPhoto, like Picasa does, so that Grace can just click and export. Done.

Medical Check

While we are still waiting for Grace’s FBI report to sort itself out for our Canadian immigration documents, we decided to go ahead and get our medical check ups ready on Tuesday. The whole process was insanely easy. And the strange thing about the doctor, who is appointed/licensed by the Canadian Consulate specifically for Canadian immigration medical check ups, is that he seems to operate that specific clinic ONLY for the purpose of doing Canadian immigration medical checks!

He had no front desk receptionist, no computers, not even an answering machine as far as I could see. I wonder how many of these check ups he does every month…

Now that one more thing was done, hopefully the end is near so we can finally live normally and not have to worry about our immigration status anymore. We see so many American citizens and people with Green Cards take their status for granted and hope we can have that luxury someday… IN CANADA! Hah!

Thai Temple

A friend told us about another Thai temple in the South Bay area (in fact, the largest in the area) a while ago. But we never really got a chance to check it out since we’d enjoyed the temple in Berkley quite a bit. So over the weekend, we went there and checked it out. (Sorry, JASE+A. We couldn’t find you.)

The food at the Freemont temple is not quite the same as the one in Berkly, which makes the visit the more interesting. Even though there weren’t as many varieties, almost everything is cooked on the spot as you order it, and the selections are slightly different. I particularly enjoyed a type of noodle soup that I haven’t had since I left Thailand — I’ve never seen it made anywhere else outside of Thailand!! That noodle was GOOD!

Next week the temple is going to have a Loy Krathong Festival (floating “water lamps” ). In Thailand, Loy Krathong is a big deal. We might stop by and check out the festival.

Welcome to Canada, But…

Ahhh, exciting times.

We woke up at 7:30AM to get ready for our interview at the Canadian Consulate yesterday. The traffic in L.A. is so bad that people advised us to expect a one-hour drive for a distance that’d normally take less than 20 minutes. Luckily the traffic wasn’t terrible, and we managed to get there before 9AM…

We waited two hours as other people went through their interviews in two of the three individual interview rooms separated by clear, sealed glasses. I noticed that other than us and and another Thai couple, the rest of the interviewees were from the Indian Subcontinent. Some people were interviewed for 40+ minutes while it only took others an easy 20 minutes. Ours was somewhere around 25-30 minutes, mostly questions about what I did at my previous jobs. Bryan was fussy being in a fairly small and confined room; so the immigration officer, Joe Francisco, excused him along with Grace from the interview only having asked her two or three questions.

Overall the interview went very well. I was able to provide all the documents Joe asked for (though he didn’t really ask for many). At the end of the interview, he simply passed me a piece of paper for the remaining required documents I still need to submit — medical check up forms and the FBI reports (en route). Not sure if we’d passed the interview, I had to ask Joe, “So this means we are approved?” Joe replied, “yes, pending your medical forms and the FBI report.”
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That wasn’t too bad after all. Now we just need to find a way to LAND in Canada to pick up that sweet Green Card…

At the suggestion of Jan when we met up for dinner last night, we stopped by the Taiwanese Economic and Culture Office today, hoping to fetch a different and more favorable solution for the possibility of getting my passport renewed. But basically we got mostly the same answers from them as we did from TECO of San Francisco except that they “could” give me a special passport valid for six months especially designed for people like me to return Taiwan (and only for that purpose). Whether or not other countries would accept such passport, the lady at TECO told me, is up to them.

That’s a pretty exciting possibility we may explore once we are done with our medical exams.

But for now, we pray and wait.

Canadian Interview Preps

The day has come… Tomorrow we will be heading to the Canadian Consulate in Los Angeles for our immigration interview. Grace has been spending the past few days to get additional files for Bryan ready. And I spent the last night getting all the files prepped for our interview. Basically I had to bring all my pay stubs, employment contracts I have ever signed (one), bank statements, every single piece of immigration documents since I have been in the United States, tax documents, college diplomas and transcripts, marriage certificate…. and much more — all in original forms as well as having an extra copy ready.

At the end of the night, my document bag made me look like a damn lawyer.

Documents needed for the Canadian immigration interview

Our rental car is going to be extraordinarily packed because of all the stuff we are taking with us for the trip — “Bryan Essentials” (diapers, toys, cloths, formula), my golf clubs and other gears for my brother, gifts for friends, immigration documents, and of course, our cloths and other necessities. Before my mom left, she also made and froze a bunch of food for my brother. Just those alone is going to take up a good size cooler! 🙂

So off we go today, on a six-to-eight-hour road trip to Los Angeles… with Bryan!

Goodbye to Grandma

My mom left last night, one week shy of having been here for two months. She had tears in her eyes as she held and said goodbye to Bryan. Bryan gave her a couple of kisses, not knowing it’d be a while before he’s to see grandma again. He innocently showed off his new-learned skills of “flying kiss goodbyes” as mom entered the security line. But of course, Bryan probably could not grasp what was going on and got distracted at the bypassing flock of flight attendants getting ready to go through security checks for the crew.

By now, mom had cleared the security checks; she turned around one last time, hesitated and looked at Bryan. She smiled. And then she waved her goodbye, hoping Bryan would be able to recognize her tiny body in the fleeting crowd and wave back. And then she turned and dragged her feet en route to her departing gate. What she didn’t see was Bryan finally raised his right hand, gaving her a kiss goodbye and waved.

Americana

The other day we came home to a mailbox stuffed with a huge USPS envelope addressed to “Bryan Yong-si Chu”. I was like, “Hey Grace, there’s a mail for Bryan!?”

It turned out to be Bryan’s passport (of the United States of America!). I opened and flipped through his passport with envy, joy, maybe almost a fraction of a drop of tear in my eye — Bryan was born with something his parents spent a good deal of fortune and their adult lives pursuing but could not obtain. I hope he will appreciate this gift that’s been bestowed on him.

Bryan's American Passport

With this passport and copies of my MFA transcript from SCAD, now we are ready for our interview with the Canadian Consulate in October.

Refuge

Most people don’t realize just how impossible it is to work at home in peace, especially when everyone else is also at home. But even when nobody is at home to bug you, there’s still plenty of distractions:

“Have I paid the electric bill yet? I better do that now.”
“What’s that sound in the living room? Did one of the cats knock something off? I better go check it out.”
“Did the postman just drop off the mail? I better go get that…”
“Why doesn’t the neighbor pick up her phone? It rings so damn loud…”

It’s especially tough this month because my mom’s visiting, and I basically gave our spare bedroom, a.k.a. “my office”, to her and work on our dinning table in the kitchen where it’s almost impossible to work because Grace and mom watch Korean drama, marathon style. Besides, mom is always doing stuff in the kitchen when she’s not watching Korean drama with Grace… Then there’s Bryan playing with his toys just 3 feet away in the living room right next to me.

With my latest project being 2 months overdue, and I am under tremendous pressure to “show” something in 3 days, I have had to “escape” from the house and find refuge elsewhere to concentrate and just crank out codes. At first I tried the library, but then it’s almost eerily quiet after having been in a house where there’s always something going on.

The most unlikely refuge, I found out, is the Mall, of all places, the most crowded and noisy space. The interesting thing about the mall though, specifically Vally Fair Mall in Santa Clara, is that the music is always blasting in full volume (which I never noticed before). The crowd and the noise actually help me concentrate even more. It’s like I find peace in my little 15.4″ laptop screen in a massive crowd where I intended to find refuge away from a small crowd at home. What an oxymoron.

Just a couple of months ago I debated really hard whether or not to rent a small corner office for a few hundred bucks a month just so that I have a place to go and just focus on my programming, homework and everything else. But I just couldn’t justify having to spend that kind of money when we are trying to save every penny we can being in the situation that we are in.

The mall then becomes an interesting choice because it has no distractions (as long as I don’t lift my head up from the screen), no trivial household tasks to take care of, even going to the bathroom is inconvenient. And it’s got free wifi connection right next to the Sony Store where there are lots of seats, tables and even power outlets. So there, about the only thing I can do is bury my head in my thoughts and programming logics and just work.

The joke between me and Grace now is: if you ever need me, I’ll be in my “office” at the mall…. Hah!

Short Trip at the Yosemite National Park

I came home from Yosemite with some mixed feelings about the trip — mostly good feelings but also some strange ones. I guess if I go in depth with each point I have, this post is going to be a pretty long one, so I will just give it a quick dry run and revisit some of them sometime in the future… I posted some images from the trip.

>> Lodging
Curry Village
Curry Village

Pros: Relatively clean tents; relatively rule-respecting crowd; heating provided in some tents when it gets cold; relatively comfy mattresses; electricity outlets; 24×7 shower.

Cons: Extremely poor facility for cooking; expect to dine at on-site commercial dinning facilities or cook on top of bear-proof lockers which is extremely inconvenient; extremely LONG lines for almost everything — parking, front desk check-in, dinning… etc. Small and expensive rooms, but then every lodging facility there is expensive; tiny bear-proof lockers; can be very difficult to find parking; EXTREMELY CROWDED — feels more like a cheap, 3rd class tourist area.

Housekeeping Camp
Housekeeping Camp

Pros: Great on-site cooking facility (provided if you bring your own portable stove; Grace has even seen people bring microwaves!!); literally walking access to mountain and river views; lots of open space; lots of returning families here every year; easy parking (drive almost right up to your tent!); short lines for everything. Feels more like “camping” and closer to nature (except for the “cons” below). Cheap.

Cons: Relatively dirty facilities; loud and annoying crowd (LOTS of kids and “red necks” blasting loud MUSIC! Yes, music in the middle of nature! Idiots!); limited shower and bathroom hours; lousy bunk beds; VERY hard to fall asleep at night because some people stay up with loud voices (including kids at 12AM).

>> Traffic
The traffic both to and from the park are pretty nice. The only traffic jam we experienced was at the entrance of the park where everyone paid for entrance fees. Also, there’s no easily accessible gas station within the park itself; so gas up before you enter the park!

Overall traffic in the so-called Yosemite Village is excellent. Almost everybody takes the free shuttle to get around (which are supposedly made just for national parks to keep emissions low). The shuttles are very frequent and drivers friendly (and some of them humorous). But parking is probably as bad as New York City…

>> People
It seems like there are lots of people who visit the park quite often. We talked to a few families who go back to Yosemite every year as a family tradition. And contrary to what Chee-hoi says about the “Asian crowd”, I heard a lot more French and British-English speaking people than any other ethnic groups. Unfortunately smoking is not banned in the park. It was very annoying and frustrating to see smokers almost everywhere (and lots of cigarette butts!). But mostly people are considerate and nice to each other.

>> Scenes
There’s only one word for the sceneries: Majestic. There are lots of breathtaking scenes no matter what angle you look at them from. It’s no wonder that John Muir lobbied hard to keep Yosemite a protected American treasure. The only regret I had was that we simply didn’t have time to see everything; there’s simply too much to see just within car-accessible parts of the park! It’s probably wise to plan for a longer trip (like one week) if you plan on spending more time at each spot and truly really appreciate everything.

Yosemite Rivers

>> Food
Unless you are camping and bringing your own meals, food can be a serious issue. There are only a few spots where you can have a nice meal. The good news is, food served by the commercial vendors are comparable to your neighborhood service providers both in quality and price.

>> Bryan
Bryan did pretty well considering how long the trip was (both the drives and the duration away from home). He cried about 20% of the time in the car having never been in a car for so damn long. So it wasn’t too bad. He also slept fairly well except at Housekeeping Camp where there were lots of loud people staying up way into the night despite of “quiet hours” imposed by the camp. But nobody cares (even though we did). It is always better to travel using personal cars rather than renting one out. Companies like wowloans are helping people make this dream come true by providing instant car loans.

Before going on the trip, I taught Bryan how to growl back to bear if we ever ran into one at the park (not sure if he understood all that, but he got the growling down). During the trip, he learned that the growling sound goes with the Mandarin word “bear”. So now if we asked where “the bear” was, he’d immediately show off by growling like a bear (which is extremely funny).

Bryan and the bear