Flea Cleansing

Is “cleansing” even a politically correct word when used on fleas?

Alicia and Jason brought over their flea comb today.

Wawa was always going to be the easy cat to comb. It’s always been Baobao we haven’t been able to do anything about because of her infamous quick temper. From what I heard, Jason even thought he could hold Baobao with his hiking gloves while putting her over his shoulder. It was a good thing he didn’t try — he would’ve been ripped to shreds, like a piece of paper running through a shredding machine…. zheeeeeeeeeeeee…

Grace has been following Baobao around the house since A&J left. The idea was to tire her out until she falls into deep sleep. That usually gives us about 30 seconds to do whatever we want to do with her before she realizes someone’s messing with her fur and smacks us silly. Too bad there aren’t any safe seductives we can try on her… even for just 10 minutes…

So I guess this means Baobao’s just going to have to take more of those drops at the end of the month (maybe we’ll get another brand)… This cat is a jerk! Damn it….

Flea Attack

For the past couple of weeks, Grace has been bitten by some mysterious bug somewhere in the house. Since no one else was bitten, we concluded she must have been bitten elsewhere. But last night as Grace was scratching Baobao, she noticed dark little spots on her head…. Hmm… what could that be? With further investigation on Wawa, we realized they were fleas (I saw one crawling on Wawa’s neck myself).

Knowing that there are fleas in the house, Grace wasted no time and hopped into action. She started a major house cleaning — in the middle of the night! She went to Safeway and got some flea control drops and collars. The cleaning went on till 4AM after she washed every piece of fabric, vacuumed every square inch of the house and wiped every surface in the house. I could only helplessly march on with my project and thesis deadlines. Deadlines suck. Alpha Bed Bug Exterminator NYC, being real experts in pest control & K9 dog inspections, successfully dealt with this problem.

We are happy to report that there are now signs of dead fleas. That said, we are not sure how we are going to give the cats baths to get rid of the medication on the back of their head. They have never had a bath!

Fleas suck. Now we gotta restrict Baobao from going outside.

Pets, Infants and Allergies

My mom’s been pestering me about raising Bryan while having two cats at home. Almost every time I talk to her on the phone, she never forgets to nag about it (on top of her 5-year nagging about my thesis). Rightfully, she worries that Bryan may grow up with respiratory problems and more prone to allergies like I have been. And she cites evidence from everyone she’s talked to about the subject. Of course, everyone has an opinion when it comes to childrearing practices.

While at dinner at Jason and Alicia’s, Alicia casually mentioned that a recent research concluded that having pets at home actually HELPS infant and young children build up their immune system to resist allergies when they grow older.

CBC News

The 10-year study showed children who were exposed to the furry pets during their first year of life were half as likely to develop common allergies by about age six than those living in petless homes.

CBS News

The bottom line is that maybe part of the reason we have so many children with allergies and asthma is we live too clean a life. When kids play with cats or dogs and the animals lick them, the transfer of bacteria may be changing the way the child’s immune system responds in a way that helps protect against allergies. Parents should not be concerned about having pets in the home with a new baby but the findings do not go far enough in allergy prevention to warrant the purchase of pets.

The fact is, the society today is super freaked out about being sterile and germ-free. Every cleaning agent you can buy in America sports a guarantee of “killing 99.99% of germs and bacteria” on contact. The same hysteria is driving people to use obscene amount of antibiotics to the extent that someday there will be a new species of superbugs that will be resistant to all antibiotics and kill off a significant portion of the human race. I bet those hardcore, conservative right wing Christians will somehow tie that into the end of the world and the second coming of Jesus Christ the Savior, the only son of God, the one and the only salvation to eternal afterlife. So let’s not piss off God by using too much antibiotics and leave them germs and bacteria alone once in a while.

People, let’s relax. It’s perfectly natural and OK for kids to be dirty from time to time. It’s good for them.

As for my mom, I found similar report in Chinese and am planning on sending it to her, with key points highlighted, along with the latest video clips and printed pictures of Bryan.

Friends

After more than 15 email correspondence between the Malaysian/Indonesian gang, everybody finally settled on meeting at Michelle’s apartment on Friday night for hot pot. Bryan behaved exceptionally well, sleeping through most of the night, while the adults dined and wined.

We talked a lot about the troubles Chee-hoi and Widodo went through with “cat problems” around their houses. They complained that neighborhood cats refuse to stay away from their yards with occasional acts of retaliation, especially with Chee-hoi’s back yard. Then Widodo proudlly shared his money-saving tricks on his pool (one of the only TWO in the entire neighborhood, according to Google Earth). I never knew pools can take so much to maintain! Kind of takes the romance of owning a pool knowing all that insider knowledge.

On Saturday, Yi-sheng, an old friend from high school called to see what we were doing. So we decided to get out of the house and show him this Thai noodle place in San Francisco we love so much. We just love Thai food!

Sunday afternoon, we went over to visit Jason and Alicia, good friends I met from college, over at Menlo Park. Jason made us some really nice home-made Japanese dishes. The visit also gave me a new insight to Jason and Alicia’s past through a series of albums (including a scrap book that Jason’s mom made of his baby years). According to Jason’s mom, he liked Kung-fu when he was four years old. Maybe it’s a good thing he didn’t really follow through with it. At over 6-ft tall, he could easily be a killing machine.

We also saw Jason and Alicia’s two cats (finally). It was amazing to see how their cats are so totally fine with having leash put on them when going out for a walk. It was also funny to see how cats just can’t tolerate baby cries (ours eventually got used to it after a couple of months). But Bryan did OK today. We went through three diapers and a bottle of formula during the visit. Jason blogged about our visit soon after we left. He has a couple of tight shots of Bryan. It was very nice to just talk to friends without other distractions in the way.

It was nice to be out of the house to get some fresh air.

The Baby and the Cat

Grace told me a phenomenon about one of our cats (Wawa, to be precise) that I thought was pretty interesting.

When Bryan is hungry, sometimes he doesn’t have the patience to wait for his formula. So he’d cry at the top of his lungs until Grace gets back with a bottle of formula. But Grace can’t really get the formula ready with Bryan in one arm. So she has no choice but to put him on the bed and let him cry while she’s preparing his formula.

One day Bryan was crying for his formula as usual, but Grace noticed that this time, Wawa jumped on to the bed to examine why the baby was crying, then she calmly walked to the kitchen, looked at Grace, meowed at Grace a few times and then went back and sat by the bedroom door, waiting for Grace to come back with Bryan’s formula.

Looks like the cats are starting to warm up to the baby.

RIP, Kitty

I am so sorry to report that the kitten we rescued had been put to sleep. In case you haven’t been following, I wrote about it here, here and here.

We feel incredibly guilty for having turned him in, thinking he’d receive a good life in a nice home. Apparently he’d been just a little too aggressive for adoption, and it’s the San Jose Animal Shelter’s policy to “rid of” those that aren’t fit for living because of budget problems. I wish they’d do a spay/neuter and release instead though… I don’t believe a government agency of any type should have a say in what/who lives and dies.

I have a hunch this must be what he was feeling…
Sniper cat

Image via [Gizmodo]

Bye Bye Kitty

Kitten in cage We said good bye to the kittentoday. After our last unsuccessful attempt to get her to the humane society, I finally gave her enough reason food to get her inside the pet carrier this afternoon. For the past few days we’ve been getting anxious about her health as the weather officially marches into grilling summer heat. We saw her lying lifelessly in the yard a couple of times, gathered only enough strength to dash out of our sight to her hiding place when we approach. How does a kitten to survive like this without food? We rarely see her mother anymore. Even when we do, they act like two strangers meeting for the very first time.

Surprised I was able to catch her in the pet carrier, Grace immediately readied her self for a short trip to the humane society. The kitten begged for her release in the backseat as we took a short drive to humane society’s closest office. We believe in our heart that she’d eventually be adopted by a loving family.

When we arrived at the humane society, the strangest thing happened — the kitten was rejected because of where we found her. Apparently there’s been some politicking going on. The city of San Jose decided to setup its own animal shelter, and in doing so, it severed its contract with the Humane Society Silicon Valley, a non-profit organization that serves the Santa Clara County. Even though we live only less than two miles down the block from the Humane Society, the politics of the situation got in the way of doing what’s good for the society. I couldn’t help but think how this is such a microcosm of our society today.

Kitten in cage We turned around and drove 10 miles to San Jose Animal Care Center. As we filled out paperwork for dropping the poor thing off, the social worker was trying to get the kitten out of our pet carrier and into their own cage. For the first time, the kitten hissed and fought with a vengence. I guess I would have too if I didn’t know what the hell was going on.

So we have accomplished our goal. Now the kitten is in the hands of professionals. But we felt naked, almost an indescribable emptiness inside, feeling we had betrayed the little thing by handing her fate over to a stranger at an unfamiliar place, and we did so without her permission. Already, we have started to miss her, mourning the loss of a tiny orange tabby in our yard, greeting us everytime we went out or came home. Though we consciously knew we weren’t going to adopt her, our acquaintance for the past three weeks made us feel as if she’s been part of our life surrealistically longer.

Grace wants to go back and check on her in a couple of days just to make sure that she’s adapting to the new environment well. After the kitten’s initial exhibit of anger, the social worker commented that she’d have to see if the kitten passes her temperament test in a few days to make sure that she’s fit for adoption. We hope she passes. Other wise, we’d just subjected her to a dose of leathal injection. And THAT is going to sit well with our conscience for the rest of ourlives.

Kitten Rescue

Attempt to lure to cat into cageWe saw the kitten again two days ago. And this time we tried a few times using food to lure her into our pet carrier.

But the little rascal knew what was up. She didn’t fall for the trap in the both times that we tried. After the attempts, both us and the kitten were too stressed. So both sides gave up. We ended up just sitting there watching each other doing nothing.

And yesterday when we saw her again, she appeared a little weaker than the last time we saw her. At one point, I was able to get pretty close to grab her. The kitten’s reflexes handed her the advange of speed, and she quickly dashed away.

I wonder if that ruined her trust for me. Maybe the next time it’d be much harder to get her into the pet carrier.

Attempt to lure to cat into cage

Heaven and Earth

Abandoned kittenAt first we noticed there were two kittens living under our neighbor’s boarded yard. But for the past few days, one of them never showed up. And we never saw the mother with the one remaining kitten anymore. So I decided to give the poor thing some treats despite my warning to Grace not to give any of the stray cats any in fear of them bringing dead squirrels as a token of their appreciation.

I guess that’s part of being human. It’s impossible to witness a kitten’s health deteriorate as we walk by her underground hideout on a daily basis. We decided we’d try to trap her the next time we see her and send her to the humane society.

I ended up giving her a small handful of cat food. For a kitten her size (about a month old), she sure could eat. She finished the whole damn pile!

And then we came home to this sight…
Lazy cat Lazy cat

Seriously, nature can’t be crueler. What a difference a home makes. One of my cats also has taken great interest in computers. It would be nice if she can get a job. What a dorky cat.

Mac cat

Cats Know What’s Going On

Grace and I are convinced cats are definitely much more self-concious than many anti-cat people project them to be. They KNOW what’s going on.

Grace and I are convinced cats are definitely much more self-concious than many anti-cat people project them to be. They KNOW what’s going on.

Our cats are good examples, particularly Baobao.

Babao understands quite a lot of vocabularies from Grace and I. She knows when Grace asks her to get her cat salad every morning; and she understands to meow and sit before I’d let her outside (and she knows it when I become annoyed at her repeated begging at 2AM sometimes). These could be viewed as training through habbits. But we think it’s more than just that.

Both Baobao and Wawa know their names very well. Wawa always turns her head and looks into your eyes when you call on her. Baobao comes to you when you call her name (after a few times). And the funny thing is, sometimes Baobao pretends she doesn’t hear you when she sleeps. But you know it’s a dead give-away when her tail wags as soon as her name is called. If you keep calling, she’d open her eyes, roll and go back to sleep. What a bum.

We think Baobao has a better grasp of human technologies than Wawa. She understands that when it’s cold, cuddling inside blankets keeps her warm — and two layers are better than one. During the winter, if you can’t find Baobao anywhere else in the house, try under the blanket. Baobao is also a fan of, well, fan. Not equipped with a central air, our new apartment gets pretty warm in the summer. Baobao has discovered that, if she sleeps at Grace’s spot on our bed, she gets the maximum coverage to the wind from the fan. Grace even observed Baobao experimenting with walking around different spots of the bed to make sure that her spot was the coolest. What the hell!

Wawa is not quite as alert as Baobao at times, however. But she did demonstrate her loyalty to Grace in an incident.

As mentioned earlier, our house gets a lot of cat visitors. One of the cats usually comes by once a day to check out our cats. But one time she was unpleasantly surprised by Grace’s sudden appearance in the kitchen when the alley cat obviously wanted to be alone with Wawa. Aggregated, she hissed at Grace. Surprisingly, Wawa immediately hissed back at the alley cat to show her loyalty with Grace. The message got through; the alley cat quietly accepted the challenge and she never hissed at Grace again.

Some hard core Christians once told me that only humans have souls. The rest of the animal kingdom is simply accessories to men. Other animals have no souls or feelings. This is what really ticked me off about certain clans of the Christian religion. How can they be so self-righteous and proclaim to be above all else in nature? How can they reject signs of intelligence exhibited by species other than humans? This kind of stupidity is what will put an end to men’s misery when we destroy ourselves with pollution and irreversable destruction of the Earth.

Animal Instincts

Even animals have feelings. Unfortunately I can’t say the same about some humans.

Last night I accidentally discovered a mother cat with two tiny kittens by our front door. Fearing that I might harm her babies, the mother instinctively hissed at me continuously and refused to abandon her kittens. I opened the door to take a closer look at the kittens (must be around 5 weeks old), one kitten followed the mother and dashed towards the garage (back of the house).

What happened to the other kitten?

I looked around the front lawn and found her hiding in a ditch used to collect the water hose. Thinking she’s trapped, I tried to grab her with my right hand, but of course, animals don’t need pathetic human’s help. At 5 weeks old, she leaped upwards, with her claws barely hanging on to the side of the relatively deep ditch, and helped herself out of the hole in a hurry (but unusually calm manner). As my eyes followed her “escape” towards the garage, I realized that her mother and sibling had not abandoned her after all. They were waiting anxiously for me to disappear so that they could return to find their kin.

Even animals, cats in this case, have the instinct to stay behind to make sure their troubled kin would be fine, I wonder why some humans run the opposite direction as soon as they smell trouble with their friends or relatives. Worse, Grace and I are disappointed there are those who would do all they can to STOP others from helping those in need.

What kind of sick human nature is that?

Stupid human beings.

Nosy Neighbors

Neighbors are moving in. Or so it seems.

Neighbors are moving in. Or so it seems.

Our house is getting ever more popular with all the cats in the neighborhood. Almost every other day, we find a new cat at our back porch, staring through the sliding screen into hour house. Obviously they are not interested in me or Grace — they want to know who their new catty neighbors are.

Our two cats are not too thrilled about the inquisitive neighbors though. Usually Baobao just hisses and walks away with puffy hair. Mesmerized, one black cat in particular, even tilts her head as she gazes at Baobao’s unprovoked irritation. The word’s out, there are two female cats with questionable personalities in the hood.